Reviewing the various money personalities we have covered so far, Conflict Jr. can be one of the most frustrating. Frustrating because this personality is constantly searching for the “correct” answer as it relates to money and contact with others, and in so doing, becomes a burden to those around them. At their best they are able to function when expectations are clearly defined for them and their roles are mapped out.
Their history is generally rooted in an environment that demanded perfection and heavily penalized the slightest perceived imperfection. As such, they tend to be anxious, dependent, and constantly looking to others to provide direction. 
When possible they will try to match up with someone who is self assured or dominate to insure there are always marching orders because they are never quite certain of their own sense of direction.
Money for them is the ultimate quandary because so much in life is dependent upon it. These are the peoplewho are constantly quoting the “experts” or appearing on the local news stating that someone who seemed knowledgeable has taken them for some amount of money. They want to do the right thing and will save, but the pressure of the crowd will from time to time compel them to second guess themselves and spend large portions of their savings.
A relationship with Conflict Jr. can begin to wear on even the most self assured person because the weight of making decisions for two becomes a heavy burden over time. But, there is hope for this personality if they are placed in a supportive environment and gently pushed to trust their own judgement. Behavior modification works well with them because it provides the encouragement they missed early in life and provides clear measures they can reflect on to offer assurance they are headed in the right direction.
A good place to start is disrupting their present value system and pointing out the chaotic results received from relying on the herd approach. Next, try encouraging them making small decisions which should foster a sense of accomplishment that will help them venture further out into deeper waters of decision making. 
Another method of reducing some of the pressure on a single significant other is to help them form a group of one or two supportive friends they can depend on to discuss a conflicted situation. However, clear instructions should be provided as to the number of contacts within a time period and that these are people they can rely on to help them think their way through things but will not make decisions for them.
Positive feedback is something we all crave, and it is air itself for conflict Jr. Helping them see just how far they have come in their journey, even if it involved small steps, will help remove some of the conflict they experience. Expect set backs, which is a natural occurrence in any attempt to carve out a new path. It is at these times you can point out that they are just like the crowd in committing and correcting a decision. They want to be part of the crowd and now they are.